Published inCodependency Recovery Helps to Cure Childhood Trauma·PinnedMy Journey To Accepting My Codependency Took 23 YearsIn 1986, when I was 10 years sober, I read Melody Beattie’s Codependent No More. I was shocked that I identified because I was a recovering alcoholic. Then, as now, codependency was sidelined to be the addiction of those who enabled addicts. So I put this identifying with codependency aside…Addiction Recovery5 min readAddiction Recovery5 min read
Published inCodependency Recovery Helps to Cure Childhood Trauma·PinnedIf You Grew Up in a Troubled Family, You Either Became a Codependent or a Narcissist.“When the family energy is focused on the problem of the adult rather than on the needs of the children, the results for the children are the state of not knowing they come first, the state of believing that they have to fix the situation, and the state of believing…Codependency4 min readCodependency4 min read
PinnedContent Curation Organizes Sources Around a Common Theme“Content curation is the process of sorting through the vast amounts of content on the web and presenting it in a meaningful and organized way around a specific theme.” Beth Kanter What is Content Curation? I have been a content curator on all 6 of my Wordpress blogs since 2006…Writing3 min readWriting3 min read
Published inDiscovering Yourself is Your Greatest Adventure·PinnedPersonality Labels is a Large Asset to Self-DiscoveryHave you ever wondered what your personality labels mean about you? Everyone has many personality labels yet most of us resist being labeled. Over a lifetime, we each will have hundreds of labels because we have unique life experiences. The main way that we learn our labels is from others…Personality Tests3 min readPersonality Tests3 min read
Published inDiscovering Yourself is Your Greatest Adventure·PinnedWhy You Should Know Your Personality LabelsThe field of therapy is the study of personality. To understand youreself and others better, invaluable tools to use are personality tests. The more we know about the labels for our personality, the better we can see these same traits in others. …Addiction Recovery2 min readAddiction Recovery2 min read
Jun 6, 2021My Favorite Job as a Group Counselor Ruined Me for 12 Step MeetingsI was a single parent for my daughter while she was ages 5–16. Then we hit a rough patch. Her father was in the military and I knew they would be good together. So I suggested they try living together. All agreed and then I went into a deep mourning…Addiction Recovery3 min readAddiction Recovery3 min read
Published inYou Have to Become Your Own Mental Health Expert·Apr 13, 2021Learning to Love Yourself Begins With Self-Compassion“If your compassion does not include yourself it is incomplete.” Jack Kornfield “Not only does a more supportive, loving attitude toward ourselves help us heal. But also our growth requires that we step away from the crowd, even if it scares us to do so. When we love ourselves as…Mental Health5 min readMental Health5 min read
Published inYou Have to Become Your Own Mental Health Expert·Apr 13, 2021Listen to Your Thoughts. They Control Your Life.“The observer self is that aspect of consciousness which can watch us act like fools and stand back at a safe distance, shaking its head in disbelief. It is capable of observing our behaviors with an even, unattached point of view. The observer can help us see our wounded areas…Thoughts4 min readThoughts4 min read
Published inYou Have to Become Your Own Mental Health Expert·Apr 13, 2021Revealing Personal Mental Illness in the Workplace“The first lesson to learn is to resign oneself to the little difficulties in life, not to hit out at everything one comes up against. If one were able to manage this one would not need to cultivate great power; even one’s presence would be healing.” Hazrat Inayat Khan 1…Mental Health4 min readMental Health4 min read
Published inYou Have to Become Your Own Mental Health Expert·Apr 13, 2021PTSD: Understanding My Social IsolationMy 33rd year of recovery from alcohol addiction began Nov. 24, 2009. Needless to say to anyone living a spiritual quest, many emotions are stirred up during an anniversary. In taking another 5th step, I realized that I had recreated the home of my childhood. I had the good mommy…Mental Health7 min readMental Health7 min read